How Many Efforts Millionaire Singles Should Put on the First Date
If there's something that unites men and women of every race and social status around the world is the anxiety a first date can generate.
"How much effort should I put on my first date" is a question that has been asked over and over again, even by millionaire singles, and the answer never seems to get any easier.
Well, we've consulted with a group of online dating experts about this very subject and here's what they had to say about it:
Remember the Goal
One of the biggest mistakes when it comes to dating is assuming that the first date should be fairly impressive. After all, you want to show yourself in a positive light if you want to score a second date, right?
Well… yes and no.
Sure, impressive your partner is ideal, but when it comes to millionaire singles, it's not that easy.
Millionaire singles simply aren't as impressed by money as regular singles, which means that expensive gifts and fancy dinners, while appealing, aren't exactly a new experience.
So, if impressing your date isn't a priority. What should I focus on?
Get to Know Each Other
Getting to know each other is the entire goal of a first date and the one thing you should be focusing on.
Think of it as the trailer to a movie.
The goal of a trailer is to get to people to watch a movie by showing them what the plot is about and to give them an idea of the "mood" of a movie.
The goal of a first date is to introduce yourself in a way that will give your potential partner a glimpse of who you are and what to expect from you, while still saving the best of you for the following dates.
This is just how dating works, whether you're dating regular people or millionaire singles.
So How Many efforts Should Millionaire Singles Put on Their First Date?
Just enough to go above expectations.
Forget impromptu travels to a different country (which can be problematic, because it's not like everyone just walks around with a passport in hand) or expensive gifts right off the bat but don't go too simple either.
Millionaire singles are used to a certain grade of luxury, so make that the bare minimum and work from there by impressing your date with actions, more than things.
Blind dates are almost non-existent nowadays so chances are you already know plenty about your date. This means you can plan to surprise them by doing something they like: Whether it's going to a concert, an art gallery, a play or anything your partner may appreciate.
Show not what you can afford but that you're a good listener and that you've been paying attention to what your partner likes.
Every person on earth, including millionaire singles, enjoy feeling appreciated for who they are and that can often be achieved by proving that you know them as a person, rather than by trying to impress them with money.